The Mother Wound Behind Your Money Blocks

What if earning wasn’t about mindset, but about your relationship with your mother?

There’s a truth most business advice avoids:

Your relationship with money is, in many ways, your relationship with the Mother: internal and ancestral.

Not the mother you text on holidays.

The archetypal Mother.

The first one who held you (or didn’t).

Who taught you, silently, what you had to do to be loved, safe, and worthy of care.

And most of us, especially women, are still earning from that place.

The Original Currency Wasn’t Cash. It Was Attention.

Before you had an offer, a niche, or a business model,

you had a nervous system shaped by proximity to love.

You reached. She responded . Or didn’t.

You needed. She froze.

You cried. She disappeared. Or overcompensated. Or made it about her.

These early moments imprinted something foundational:

"To receive… I must not need too much."

"To be loved… I must attune to her needs first."

"To be safe… I must make myself small, silent, or useful."

And these adaptations?

They become your business model.

Your Money Patterns Are Not Mindset. They’re Maternal.

You’re not procrastinating. You’re protecting.

You’re not “bad with money.”

You’re unconsciously managing a loyalty to a mother who struggled with her own worth, power, or voice.

You delay raising your prices?

→ It’s safer than becoming “too much.”

You shrink before launching?

→ You’re honoring the energetic pact not to outgrow her.

You sabotage abundance the moment it arrives?

→ Because somewhere, your nervous system believes that wealth = exile from the feminine bond.

The Unspoken Pact

So many brilliant, intuitive, gifted women are walking around with this silent contract etched into their body:

“I won’t be more free than she was.”

“I won’t be more seen than she could handle.”

“I won’t earn more, shine more, live more , if it risks losing her love.”

And while your adult self sets income goals…

your inner child is still negotiating survival.

She doesn’t care about 10k months.

She wants to belong.

The Business as a Mirror of the Mother

Your business becomes the arena where this wound plays out.

You call it “visibility resistance,”

but what’s really happening is an attachment rupture rehearsal:

You fear that being fully expressed will lead to being abandoned.

You call it “money mindset,”

but what you’re actually dancing with is the grief of having never felt truly supported.

Your launch anxiety?

Your pricing guilt?

Your resistance to hiring help?

They are all echoes of the mother.

What Happens When You Finally See It

The moment you name it — truly name it — something breaks.

A spell. A trance.

You stop building your business to unconsciously preserve a bond that no longer nourishes you.

You stop waiting for maternal permission to rise.

You stop mistaking guilt for loyalty.

You stop replicating her silence, her shrinking, her sacrifice,  in your own work.

And you begin to mother yourself.

You begin to hold your own voice like no one did.

You begin to normalize wealth, visibility, rest . Without flinching.

You no longer need to be "less" to be loved.

This Is the Real Money Work

This isn’t about manifesting.

This is about repatterning.

About making it safe — in your body — to be the first in your line to thrive without betrayal.

To create without losing love.

To earn without guilt.

To receive without rescuing.

It’s the holy work of becoming the mother your business has been waiting for.

If this resonates…

I work with women whose businesses are soul-led, but haunted by this unseen loyalty.

Women who are ready to break the maternal spell around money, power, and self-expression.

And who are brave enough to lead from a place of full-body truth, not survival.

Your next income ceiling isn’t strategic.

It’s somatic.

It’s ancestral.

It’s maternal.

And I’m here when you’re ready. To set yourself free.